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~Sexual relations are more than you can imagine~

i stayed home, all day.
most of the time, i'll be surfing, surfing, and surfing the net.
i searched my way through on beauty, dance classes, pets adoption....
and somehow, out of my curiosity, i ended up in a local child adoption site.

so, i checked the photo listing of babies available for adoption.
awwww.... they are all .......... really adorable.
some with bright smiles.....
some with sparkling eyes......
some with a *blur* look.....
and some sleeping soundly.....

i clicked on their ''more photos/details'' to read up on their profiles 1-by-1.
the more i read, the more my feelings sore.
tears filled my eyes...... i cried.

i thought that those babies were given away by those young, IMMATURE & irresponsible youths, teenagers or adolescents.
but to my surprise.......... my conceptions were wrong.

out of the 8 babies on the list,
FIVE of their reasons for being given away........
the father TURNED HIS BACK ON BOTH MOTHER & BABY.
he LEFT THEM & ABANDONED THEM.
and out of the 5 creatures (men)..............
FOUR ARE MARRIED & HAVE THEIR OWN FAMILIES!!!! WTF?!
they probably ESCAPED from the women after knowing they're pregnant.
they just........ DISAPPEARED. not giving a damn about the women & babies.
not even being AT LEAST responsible by supporting them financially.
those women, couldn't afford to bring up the baby on their own.
so they had no choice, but to give them up to the adoption center.

of these 5 cases, 3 women aged 35, 40, 43.
and one of the married man aged 59.
its like... WTF???
THEY ARE OLD ENOUGH TO EVEN USE THEIR ASSES TO THINK!
WHY ARE THEY, HUMANS, SO............ CRUEL?

im not saying that those women are not at fault. both are.
but those men should be more responsible.
look. none of those women are married.
they may be single-mother, divorcee, but still, status is, NOT MARRIED.
but those men?! MARRIED & HAVE THEIR OWN FAMILIES.
they just wanna fulfill their sexual desire and experience something 'new'.

firstly, they have an affair, they cheated on their wives, that hurts deeply.
secondly, they made their mistress pregnant, and they just ran away.
those men only know how to ENJOY. when problems arise for what they had done, all they did was just...... LEFT. ran away from reality. simply. carefree.
the women are the ones left with problems to solve ON THEIR OWN.
at least they were not that heartless to choose the abortion solution.
the child is innocent. to kill a life is a sin!
they bore the child in their wombs for 8-10 months & gave birth.
and THAT, is not easy.
who are the ones who really enjoyed the affairs?
those cruel & greedy beasts. HARD-HEARTED.
who are the ones suffering thereafter?
those stupid women, who got involved with married men. STUPID.

i browsed through all photos of those babies.
they are really, really, so cute and adorable.
i even watched the videos of those babies.......
my heart ached for those innocent souls.
i wondered how would those mothers gave up on such cute babies barely.


generally, babies would be in their parents' arms everyday, hearing lullabies, feeling their gentle touch, care, love, and kisses every now and then.
but for those babies with no parents by their side, what do they receive??

altho the adoption center do provide food and care.
but tender love from biological parents can never be replaced.
tears are filling my eyes again........
[im too soft-boiled].

how could those irresponsible people had done this to life.
a man being sexually unfaithful, breaking the hearts of 2 women.
the heedless adults having the affairs, enjoyed the part of their lives.
and when a new life were supposed to come into this whole new world, seeing smiles all around...... the parents were no longer around. they're are moving on with their OWN lives.


that really displeases me. i really hate those kinda heartless men. T_T
and i also hate those guys, when they had made their girls pregnant, they asked them to abort it, not considering about the girl's feelings. and even gave excuses like ''i dont think we are old enough to take care of this child'', or ''i am still young and i dont have a stable career to start a family yet''.
OH GOD?! that does not make ANY sense.
IF you think u are too young & unstable to start a family & to be responsible.
THEN, u SHOULD NOT have sexual relations with anyone in the first place!!
if u wanna do it, do it when u are ready to take up ANY responsibility!!
men, please, do not treat women as your sex machine.


to everyone, anyone, and YOU, who are reading this.
regardless of age, race, gender. may it be 14 years old or 60.
PLEASE. always be considerate & responsible.
a newborn baby, is a life.
an unborn foetus, is also a life.


THINK twice, before you act.

[those married parents who already have children, and decided to give away their newborn due to their financial problems & wished that a kind family could give their newborn a better life, is an exception. i won't say that that is totally cruel. they loved their child alot, that they were willing to place him/her for adoption rather than let him suffer by their side].

i believe.... there are kind souls out there..... who are willing to provide the endless love and shelter these babies need, and give them the best life.


u may wanna visit the adoption center website and read.
[ Adopt A Child ]

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